Day 6, Can I pet your dog?

Written by Michelle O'Neil on October 18th, 2009

jingle in a justice shirtThe answer is yes!

Prior to meeting Jingle, I thought there would be a “mitts off” rule around Riley’s service dog. I imagined myself having to correct adults and children alike, “No, she’s working,” etc.  Some folks receiving service dogs will undoubtedly do just that, but 4 Paws says it is for each client to decide. Chloe, a teen reader of this blog who just got her Asperger’s service dog in August says it sometimes feels invasive when people approach her dog. I myself have already been stopped numerous times at the mall by well meaning people wanting to ask about her. I love introducing her and talking about her but I guess that could get old. We’re going to have to figure out what feels comfortable for Riley. So far she has been open to it, but we will absolutely let it be her perogative, and I guess she might feel differently about it on different days. Perhaps we can put an “I’m working” sign on Jingle when Riley doesn’t feel like interacting with people out in public, and take it off when she does. 

We made our second trip to the mall today and Jingle was the perfect angel. She held the heel command even when I took her into loud busy stores. She is so smart! She didn’t want me putting the gentle leader back on her!  

Riley had another upset today, came in crying from the kid’s area, and we practiced the “over” command again. We got Jingle to put her body over Riley’s lap, and Riley pet her as we praised her. Jingle is definitely motivated by the treats at this point, and not by an altruistic goal to help Riley, but they are bonding more and more with each passing day. Todd is still her sweetheart(full tail wags when he comes in sight), but she’s responding better to me.

Jingle sat on the seat in the car today with her head on Seth’s lap, which thrilled him to no end. We also let him give her the peanut butter filled Kong, but are saving the Pupperonis (doggie crack) for Riley to give. Todd and I are using biscuits for the obedience piece.  We are all feeling a little bit more relaxed about the whole thing, and not like we have to get everything perfect, right this minute. It is a process, one that will continue to evolve long after we’ve left 4 Paws and headed back to Cleveland.

Above, you see Jingle in one of Riley’s t-shirts from her favorite store, Justice. I’m sorry Jingle, I’m afraid there will be a lot of that in your future. You didn’t resist when she put it on you. May you grow to love it.

 

5 Comments so far ↓

  1. Chloes Mom Mary says:

    We have found the “to let pet or not” an interesting issue.

    Some people totally see the cape/backpack/ jacket – whatever Indy is wearing and understand that he is working. Others don’t get it so much. On all of Indy’s working attire there is a patch that stays: “STOP Please don’t pet me. I’m working”. Ultimately, it is Chloe’s decision. There are times when she allows it and others when she doesn’t.

    I imagine there will be times when Riley is okay with it and maybe others when she isn’t.

    Jingle is awesome!

  2. We use the interactions with people to help Maggie with her communciation skills. In order to pet, Albert, our autism service, the person must ask Maggie and she has to answer. (sometimes she says no). This gets her talking. We then encourage the person to ask her what kind of dog Albert is. And she responds, with a smile. “A service Dog” and the people chuckle and start talking to her. This has increased her spontaneous speech 200 fold. It has given her more confidence and it helps to make the interaction a little shorter than them talking our ears off.

  3. Amanda says:

    I was always told to ask before I pet a dog when I was a kid. Seems reasonable to ask Riley, she’s her dog after all.

  4. Carrie Link says:

    OMHOG, doggie crack! LOL!

    I like the “I’m working” idea!