Day 5, Behavior Disruption

Written by Michelle O'Neil on October 17th, 2009

Today at training Riley came running in from the kid’s area, crying. She stomped up and down a couple of times and shrieked,

“I was trying to tear a picture out of a coloring book, and it ripped, and I crumpled it up and now all my friends are MAD AT ME!!!! WAHHHH!!!!!”

“Riley, why didn’t you ask for help?” I asked.  

That did it.

“I’m not a baaaaaaby!” she wailed.

I sat her on the mat in front of me and immediately gave Jingle the “lap” command. Jingle sprung to action, she started down by Riley’s knees, and I gave her treats as she inched her way up to Riley’s lap. After the treats, she just stayed there, her body providing deep pressure. I talked to Jingle in a soothing tone, telling her what a good girl she was. Riley started to pet her. We just sat like that, petting Jingle and I could feel Riley’s body start to relax. It didn’t take long, maybe five minutes, definitely less than ten. Then, when she was calm, Riley just got up and marched herself out of the room and back to the play area. We didn’t need to discuss it. She was okay. 

This is exactly what we were hoping for.  I sit here trying to think of a pithy ending for this post, but there are no words.

Amen.  

first lap

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9 Comments so far ↓

  1. Hi there! I was so excited you posted your note about your blog! I LOVE Jingle. We got Blitzen in the Jan/Feb 09 class. I visited Jingle and her sibs everyday in their crates. They were so little and adorable. I took a special liking to them!!! (Blitzen is Australian Shepherd and Border Collie). She sounds like she is doing awesome transitioning into your care. Stay patient. Eventually she will adjust and you won’t know what you ever did before Jingle!!!!
    take care,
    Marcia
    Hannah and Blitzen

  2. pixiemama says:

    Jingle is a dream come true.

  3. Niksmom says:

    This gives me goosebumps and makes me weepy. You don’t need any pithy words, my dear. Jingle “said” it perfectly.

  4. Dawn says:

    I’m thinking – that we all need a Jingle. Someone who we cant resist loving and who can’t resist us when we’re stuck in the shadows. So glad Riley has her and you to shine the torch of love when she cannot see the light. XO

  5. Anonymous says:

    You did some amazing work, too. Perfect. Just perfect.

    Amen.

  6. Wanda says:

    oops

    that anonymous was me

  7. Amanda says:

    Oh this is just too fantastic!!

  8. Chloes Mom Mary says:

    Awesome! My heart just sings reading about how you all are doing as a team. Things will just get better and better as you go along :-)

  9. GoMama says:

    No pith needed. Just Love.

    And Jingle Love.